Male with huge insecurities. Any help would be really appreciated.?

Id just like to say that I am the exact same way and I would like to know the answer to ur question. Looking at it from a outside point of view I would say that you probably feel the need to be reminded of how attractive you may be. My best advice would be to look at it this way..you have eyes and you can see what is attractive or what is not. If you think (or know) that when you look in the mirror you are attractive then you probably are..people probably just get intimidated therefore dont give you the attention that you feel you should be getting. Hope that wasnt confusing. good luck.